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We need to stop enabling parents to not be parents. The schools are not their parents. It's time the responsibility be where it belongs. Like I said, I had to make my own lunch and breakfast. If I forgot, then I was the one who paid the price by being hungry. I made sure I made that tuna sandwich the next day for lunch and got up early to eat breakfast. That was how I learned to be responsible for myself. There are a lot of life lessons that are learned when you have to be responsible for yourself. |
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However, you can't fix the problem to what should be without addressing what is, the cultural shift which has occurred since we ourselves were children. We have a majority of a generation and a half who were largely ignored as children and therefore ignore their own children, at least until the kids get to about 13 and then the parents try to be buddy - buddy, but then it's too late. This is in a nutshell of why those culturally American, in addition to the English learners whose parents don't want anything to do with Americanization, fail, and why those culturally American kids go hungry. You and I can talk all day long about how the kids should eat breakfast at home and make a brown bag lunch for school, but the reality is all many of the kids know (regardless of parental income) is that bag of chips. To fail to acknowledge that fact is to fail to arrive at a cultural solution of parental responsibility. And I will acknowledge that the schools are part of the problem, from at least the early 1980's the schools have pushed a narcissistic self view on the kids, "you're so special" - everyone gets a trophy regardless of achievement, pushed them to call 911 if parents compel obedience, and have sought to insert "educator" dogma between the myriad beliefs of individual parents and their children. I do believe that at some level there is an idea to hook kids into being dependent on a socialist ideal and to further a socialist cause. there is the idea of "give me a child of six years old and he will be mine for life". Let's get beyond the school lunch and think about why there are now so many school shootings - which never happened in yesteryear when kids had knives, played "cowboys and Indians" or "cops and robbers", had BB guns and 22 rifles, many hunted with shot guns and rifles, went everywhere with little fear of abduction and random child molestation and so on. We have to address the cultural shift, otherwise the talk is meaningless.
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We have broken homes, single parent families, parents who might take the kids to soccer practice but otherwise ignore them (go play with your toys!), and in spite of all the modern politically correct vilification of the old Warner brothers cartoons with Foghorn Leghorn and the Dog whacking each other on the ass with two by fours, there is much more gratuitous graphic glorification of violence available through the media for consumption by children than there ever was before 1980. It's a different world now.
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Freibier gab's gestern Hay burros en el maiz RAP IS TO MUSIC WHAT ETCH-A-SKETCH IS TO ART Don't drink and post. "A nickel will get you on the subway, but garlic will get you a seat." - Old New York Yiddish Saying "You can observe a lot just by watching." Yogi Berra Old journeyman commenting on young apprentices - "Think about it, these are their old days" SOMETIMES IT JUST DOESN'T MAKE SENSE. Never, ever, wear a bright colored shirt to a stand up comedy show. |
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